Marriage & Relationships
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The naturals charismatic
The naturals charismatic. Men and women like and trust them. That trust is key. Most of my older family members were charismatic. It's a learned trait. They ta...
In most marriages, the husband has a male cognitive bias and the wife has a...
In most marriages, the husband has a male cognitive bias and the wife has a female bias. What does that mean? It means you are going to have different prefere...
Ladies, be careful of advice from other women
Ladies, be careful of advice from other women. My experience talking with hundreds of young women about advice they got from other women, sometimes even their ...
We all have our own personal, familial, tribal, racial, and sex biases...
We all have our own personal, familial, tribal, racial, and sex biases, preferences, and conflict resolution strategies. The most challenging conflict is when ...
My son (4) woke up and came to talk to me in the middle of the night
My son (4) woke up and came to talk to me in the middle of the night. I was asleep, but in my dreams, I could hear him saying something and feel him touching me...
Because I love my wife I want to protect her from the terrible political...
Because I love my wife I want to protect her from the terrible political decisions that the majority of female voters make. Mature men are usually driven by a ...
Fear plagues the modern dating scene
Fear plagues the modern dating scene. Women fear abandonment. Not just men leaving, but abandoning them alone during the day with small children and no familia...
You Are Not Crazy Or Broken
You are not crazy or broken — you are stuck in childhood coping patterns that no longer serve you. The real crisis is a generation raised without mature parents, and the fix is finishing the growing-up process.
All the political movements on the right are dead
All the political movements on the right are dead. Why? Because none of them have solutions. They are experts at identifying problems, getting attention, and ...
Personality matching for marriage is important
Personality matching for marriage is important. For example: - If you are more neurotic or agreeable than your wife, she will perceive you as weak. - If you ar...
"I/we can't trust men
"I/we can't trust men." "Men in the online right are hostile to us." I've been seeing a lot of this sentiment in the online right over the last few months. It...
Political activism is a terrible place for women
Political activism is a terrible place for women. Constant conflict and king of the hill games. It's a meat grinder that shreds them up mentally and emotional...
Ladies, no, you can't be friends with a man
Ladies, no, you can't be friends with a man. Men know this instinctively; it's obvious to most of us. The sneaky dudes will lie about it; thats a whole sexual ...
Most advice is only applicable to the third function (the economic class)
Most advice is only applicable to the third function (the economic class). The martial class (second function) has different goals and drivers, which necessita...
Men and women can get along together
Men and women can get along together. We can make happy families. We can grow old together in love. But none of this happens by accident. Most of us were not ra...
One of the biggest problems on the right is parionia, leading to knee-jerk...
One of the biggest problems on the right is parionia, leading to knee-jerk reactions. It is part of why right-leaning people have such a hard time organizing an...
Women benefit enormously when men have our own private spaces
Women benefit enormously when men have our own private spaces. I love my wife, but it would be unreasonable to expect her to fulfill all my social needs. Somet...
The more confidant a man is, the easier it is for him to hear criticism and...
The more confidant a man is, the easier it is for him to hear criticism and take rejection without it breaking his spirit. Confidence comes from competence. Com...
Historically, both men and women had certain duties to the tribe or community...
Historically, both men and women had certain duties to the tribe or community in exchange for getting to live under its protection. Men had to be willing to la...
Neuroticism vs Conscientiousness as Success Drivers People driven principally...
Neuroticism vs Conscientiousness as Success Drivers People driven principally by fear (trait neuroticism) are operating in a high-time preference, r-selected, ...