About Noah Revoy

I am a life coach, author, and father based in Portugal. I work with men and women who are ready to do the hard, honest work of growing up; not in age, but in maturity, agency, and character.

My coaching is structured around a methodology I developed over years of working with hundreds of clients: five foundational modules (Emotional Mastery, Purpose, Identity, Moral Compass, and Mind Map) and five core techniques that systematically dismantle the patterns holding people back and replace them with ones that serve.

Before coaching, I spent decades in business: negotiating contracts, building teams, and leading organizations. That experience taught me that the same maturity gaps that destroy personal lives also destroy professional ones. The work is the same.

I write extensively about masculinity, fatherhood, relationships, psychology, and agency. My writing reaches hundreds of thousands of people across X, Substack, and other platforms. This site is the authoritative archive of everything I have written.

I am also the author of Reprogram Your Life: 90 Days to Agency, Become Immune to Manipulation, and an upcoming book on teaching children ethics.

I created The Metafather: 52 Letters to My Son, a year-long fatherhood program that teaches men to become deliberate, competent fathers.

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What I Believe

There is nothing wrong with you. You are not broken. You are simply running patterns, ways of feeling, thinking, and behaving, that made sense when you were a child but no longer serve the adult you need to become.

Maturity is not something you receive with age. It is something you build, deliberately, through the right kind of work. Most people were never given that work. I provide it.

I believe in structure over sentiment, honesty over comfort, and dignity over shame. I do not coddle people, and I do not tell them what they want to hear. But I will never treat a client with anything less than respect.

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