Marriage & Relationships
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The only way to live traditionally is to surround yourself with others who live...
The only way to live traditionally is to surround yourself with others who live traditionally, or, more precisely, responsibly. If you see marriage as it was i...
Many young men fear marriage
Many young men fear marriage. Not only because they think they might get divorced. But because they think they might be stuck in a miserable marriage that slow...
Overcoming Cognitive Dissonance in Decision Making Having a wide set of choices...
Overcoming Cognitive Dissonance in Decision Making Having a wide set of choices creates the illusion of freedom. Yet when those choices are paired with uncerta...
In my circles, many men came from humble, hardworking backgrounds and are now...
In my circles, many men came from humble, hardworking backgrounds and are now wildly successful, whether through crypto, investments, business, or other venture...
Have you heard that women are “better communicators” than men?
Have you heard that women are “better communicators” than men? What if that was not true? What if believing it was true has quietly damaged your career, your co...
How to Ensure You Have Time to Work Out as a Busy Husband and Father I am a...
How to Ensure You Have Time to Work Out as a Busy Husband and Father I am a professional husband and father. That means I take the role seriously and work to a...
Life improves in every dimension when you master something valuable
Life improves in every dimension when you master something valuable. When you become exceptional in even one or two domains, the shift is profound. Work become...
A Client Conversation on Anxiety and Purpose She said to me, "Noah, I feel...
A Client Conversation on Anxiety and Purpose She said to me, "Noah, I feel anxious about finding a boyfriend and getting married. I really want it to happen, b...
Sometimes people do not take your advice
Sometimes people do not take your advice. She was twenty-seven, intelligent, more than averagely attractive, and she wanted to marry and start a family. I met ...
There is an evil organized system preying on young women right now
There is an evil organized system preying on young women right now. It grooms them from childhood. It feeds them lies in schoolbooks, cartoons, classroom poste...
Allowing the predatory university-industrial complex to groom and target young...
Allowing the predatory university-industrial complex to groom and target young teenage women, especially those from poor families, is nothing less than a war on...
When we talk about impulse control, we almost always mean one thing: stopping
When we talk about impulse control, we almost always mean one thing: stopping. We praise the man who resists the urge to lash out, who bites his tongue, who de...
High-testosterone men conform to first principles
High-testosterone men conform to first principles. Low-testosterone men conform to group consensus. Now here is the problem: Modern AI is built on consensus mo...
In a homogeneous, high-trust society, breaking the rules is cheating, and it...
In a high-trust society, breaking rules is cheating. In the low-trust society we actually live in, it is strategy. You must consciously choose your own rules — or be devoured by those who already have.
When the sky contradicts the forecast, when your instincts recoil at the...
When the sky contradicts the forecast, when your instincts recoil at the smiling expert on screen, when they tell you a food is poison one day and the panacea f...
Imagine sitting down with your wife and children once a week
Imagine sitting down with your wife and children once a week. Just for an hour. To write down what you learned, The big wins. The quiet lessons. The moments tha...
Have you ever driven all the way home and realized you cannot remember a single...
Have you ever driven all the way home and realized you cannot remember a single turn? Have you ever stared at the ceiling for hours after a fight, unable to re...
Too many people are isolated from the corrective social feedback of trusted...
Too many people are isolated from the corrective social feedback of trusted friends and family. I have no fear of getting "one-shotted" by ChatGPT. If I start ...
While staying in a small cabin with my family, I had the chance to teach my son...
While staying in a small cabin with my family, I had the chance to teach my son one of the most important lessons of his life. It was not about dishes, it was a...
I have seen this pattern over and over again: a man who is strong, masculine...
I have seen this pattern over and over again: a man who is strong, masculine, respected by other men. He leads other men well, maybe in business, maybe in broth...