What do marriage-minded women under 30 want from men?
What do marriage-minded women under 30 want from men?
I’ve been out there asking women what they want and digging into their minds to help them find their true desires, and it’s a lot simpler than most men realize.
Most women want the same things from marriage and family.
Here is what they tell me they want from a husband:
Good at being a man (mature and masculine). A leader who makes most of the strategic decisions. Makes enough that she can be a SAHM when the children are small. Will respect the marriage vows. Fun and romantic (sometimes they ask this as well, with some minimal expectations).
Thats it. Simple. Most men could hit all five points.
So why do some women give men huge lists of demands?
For two main reasons:
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Some women are delusional (or predatory) and think that demanding things will make them appear.
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Some women use these demands as a way to say no to men they don’t like. It’s a simple rejection.
Don’t fall for the black-pill propaganda that women are impossible to please.
It is impossible for an immature man to please most women. It’s easy work for a mature man.
The first point, being a mature and masculine man, is 80% of what is needed to keep most women happy. It’s the main area that men are failing in.
So here is the question for both men and women: If masculinity is male maturity, then what differentiates the mature man from the immature?
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