We should have the 4 loves for our wife:
Eros: erotic, passionate love. Philia: love of friendship. Storge: love of family. Agape: principled love (duty).
Of all 4 Agape is foremost because it is not a fickle emotion but a dedication to principles & right action towards her.
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Men historically only protected women who belonged to them. As Western incentive structures erode, society is reverting to a world where unprotected women face growing danger.
When she says her husband is great on paper, she is revealing a marriage with no polarity or desire — just a checklist. The real problem is not chores, it is that she turned her husband into a second wife.
The same hardships that forge masculine strength beat the softness out of women. If you want a feminine wife, protect her from the harshness that was never meant for her.
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