The Married Man Advantage

The Married Man Advantage.

The number one thing that makes a man attractive to women is social proof. Women like you because other women like you.

#1 tag is ”😍 In a relationship” #7 tag is ”👶 Parent”

I’m not suggesting that married men take advantage of this fact to cheat. Instead, both married and single men can use it as insight into the feminine mind.

♀️ The feminine mind (in a woman or a man) values consensus over facts and agreement over principles. ♀️ Women value mature, responsible men who demonstrate their ability to lead a family. ♀️ The feminine mind’s consideration of consequences focuses on the immediate gratification of needs and discounts long-term benefits and costs (a man who cheats with you will cheat on you).

Lessons for married men:

�🏻 If other women are not attracted to you, it is likely that your wife will not find you attractive. Keep yourself in a mental, emotional, and physical state that is generally attractive to women. Never get overly comfortable, letting yourself go because “I’ve got her now; no need to keep trying.”.

�🏻 You need to lead your family and let your wife see you doing it. This gives her comfort that you are doing the “hidden” leadership work that men don’t generally talk about.

�🏻 Help your wife develop long-term thinking by ensuring that your family has a clear mission and by including her in your planning process as you lead the family.

Lessons for single men:

�🏻 The more positive interactions you have with women, the easier it gets, and the more the female collective will come to the consensus that you are attractive. You start getting referrals, and women will become more openly friendly. If you’re dating, it’s easier to find a date. Go develop some inertia in the right direction.

�🏻 If you don’t have a family to lead, lead something else. Volunteer to lead a youth group, mentor some kids, or help some older people. Show that you are a capable man, and women will find you more attractive.

�🏻 Women will say yes or no and not mean it tomorrow because they are only thinking of that moment. Try asking again later. Many women are afraid of commitment because they cannot clearly visualize a future with you that is better than the present. You have to sell her on it.