The end result of my decision was a 5x increase in my income, my wife now has a full time maid to help her, we no longer think about money and this is just the beginning, it’s going to get even better.
There are real world costs to avoiding natural roles and a devision of responsibility in the family. Both spouses will under perform and often that leads to resentment.
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Men historically only protected women who belonged to them. As Western incentive structures erode, society is reverting to a world where unprotected women face growing danger.
When she says her husband is great on paper, she is revealing a marriage with no polarity or desire — just a checklist. The real problem is not chores, it is that she turned her husband into a second wife.
The same hardships that forge masculine strength beat the softness out of women. If you want a feminine wife, protect her from the harshness that was never meant for her.
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