Marriage & Relationships September 25, 2021 3 min read

Our fate is interconnected with the future of those around us Historically we...

Our fate is interconnected with the future of those around us

Historically we would have been surrounded by people who looked, sounded, acted and thought like us

We were joined in bonds of blood and religion

It was easy to trust what was essentially our extended families

Today we are a divided, mixed, rootless, cosmopolitan, low Agency people with no shared history or vision for the future

The perfect people to be easily manipulated, slaves

This is no accident, we have been put in this situation slowly over decades, told it was right & natural

The consequences of buying into the Radical Individualism Psyop are in full force

☠️Our high trust culture is replaced with low trust ☠️Many are on edge, lacking in intimacy & trust ☠️Friendships & marriages are hard to form ☠️Parents & children are alienated from each other

Many long for the past with small village life, high trust communities, homogeneity, security & familiarity

We can not go back, only forward

Start by rejecting Radical Individualism, recognising our interdependence & developing the Agency to be a valuable part of a community

A mans appearance His families condition The state of their home The aesthetics of their neighbourhood The culture of a people The development of a nation

All are a product of Agency at different scales

It is NOT just enough for YOU to be high Agency, your people also matter

A traditional community is a mesh network of trusting, bonded men, women & children each with unique roles and values

Everyone has value to contribute

As we grow we are mentored by more mature community members and in turn mentor those who are less developed

An unending cycle

To rebuild community, even in the middle of urban areas, requires us to rebuild the bonds of trust

Trust is earned through: ➡️Mutual reliance (watch my back) ➡️Exposure of vulnerabilities ➡️Consistant experiences ➡️Shared objectives & values

Rebuild high trust relationships

Start building your community by mentoring a single person

Find someone that needs family, has potentional to be a valuable community member, is willing to learn Add a new mentee every 3 to 6 months Get the experienced persons to mentor new people Do hard things together

Build up your hierarchy like a family where older members provide wisdom and younger members provide youthful vigor

Spiritually adopt those that you have built deep trust with, or make them your blood brothers by oath

You will end up with a self sustaining community

“What about rules & dealing with problems?”

Rules are for low Agency people High Agency people need principles

Build a high Agency community & you will have little need for rules

The older men with demonstrated agency will judge for the community

Address issues proactively

“What about the government, they might Waco us”

Fear is not a place to make decisions from

Im not suggesting forming a cult that isolates itself

You will be a community within your city, town or village

Make yourselves valuable to your neighbours, reach out to them

“This sounds really hard, is there an easier way”

Yes, it is hard, yes there is an easier way

Join an existing community, but you will have to humble yourself to adapt to THEIR culture and needs

Make sure you have value to offer your new community

Be wise who you join

“Noah, will you help me form my community?”

Yes, I will help you. Reach out to me and ask. I will expect reciprocity, value for value

I have a lot of experience community building and I have templates and programs that you can use to train up members and even yourself

DM me

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