Men: Do you want a traditional, husband-led, peaceful, and joyful marriage?

Men: Do you want a traditional, husband-led, peaceful, and joyful marriage?

One of the first steps is to initiate potentially uncomfortable conversations with your wife. This is not easy; there are lots of ways to mess this part up. For example, it’s impossible to convince your wife to change until you are 100% convinced yourself.

When you bring up lifestyle changes to your wife with a divided mind on the subject, she will sense your indecision (and weakness) and shut down the conversation out of fear.

One of the keys to being a hyper-persuasive husband is to be fully convinced of the things you advocate for in the family.

First, you have to convince yourself, and then you can convince her. And that requires that you get your mind very clear and focused and keep your emotions well regulated.

Being uncertain is anti-persuasive.

Can you clearly articulate the changes you want to make and the benefits to your wife that these changes will bring? If you can’t say it out loud (and write it down), you have not thought it out well enough yet.

Talk to me if you need clarity on this subject; I would love to help you.