Historically marriage was a joining of two families
Historically marriage was a joining of two families. When you married your whole family would vet your potential spouses whole family. This level of due diligence offered both parties a high level of protection from bad decisions.
Today we may not have such a deep pool of knowledge to pull from, or healthy families, however most people perform zero due diligence in selecting a mate. They spend more effort choosing a new car than a spouse.
You need to test before you commit.
As a Patriarch for hire I’ve vetted many young men and women at the request of their partner. It takes me about 10 minutes to know what I need to know. Im very good at what I do. Think of it as cheap insurance.
Don’t be fooled by the trickster.
Not everyone is as they appear.
Test their heart before you commit.
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