Women love and live in their fantasies, especially when young and single

Women love and live in their fantasies, especially when young and single. It makes them happy.

If you want to marry her, you need to get her to fantasise about a bright, positive future with you. You can trigger her fantasies with your words, what you say, and what you don’t say.

Drop “us” or “we” into the conversation occasionally.

Ask her questions about what is important to her so that she feels like you understand her. �If she likes dogs, “What’s your favorite dog breed?” “Why?” �If she loves her family, ask how her parents met.

Be honest, but do not be specific about the future; this gives her room to fill in the blanks. The reality is that even you don’t know exactly what the future holds. Examples: �“One day I want some children, as many as God blesses us with.” �“Sometimes I think about living on a small homestead.” �“It would be fun to travel as a family.” �“We could do anything.” �“You will make someone a great wife.” �“You would be a good mother one day.”

Use embodied language: “I feel”, “I love”, “I enjoy”. Women are very sensual; they live in their bodies and their feelings. To deeply connect with them, speak in their native language, “The Feels”.

Touch her early on, in non-sexual ways, so that she starts to fantasise about you holding her and loving her.

Don’t pressure her. Modern society has piled massive, impossible, and conflicting expectations on young women. This was intentional—to break them. They are supposed to do it all: go to school, work like a man in their career, be a boss babe and be soft, have meaningless sex like a man, be thin and feminine, be a super mother, etc. She will run if she feels pressured into marriage.

Get her fantasising about marrying you and avoid breaking her fantasy early on. She will eventually adapt her fantasies to match your reality, and by then she will be attached to you and happy to live the life you offer her.