Women, Inspire Men! Women, you need to know that you can inspire underachieving

Women, Inspire Men!

Women, you need to know that you can inspire underachieving men to rise up, reach their potential, become better men, and make excellent husbands.

Throughout history, wise women have inspired men to be their best and reaped the rewards.

How do they do this?

First, you have to understand what drives men.

A small number of men have internal motivation, usually the love of truth, beauty, and goodness. They do not need anyone or anything to inspire them to pursue their own mission and seek adventure; however, a good woman may accelerate their pursuit of that mission.

Marrying an internally motivated man means that you will come second to his mission.

Everything comes second to his mission.

Most men are externally motivated. They seek wealth, status (approval), and the pleasures that come with it. Without a mission to tie it all together, they are lost, aimless, and unmotivated. They are waiting for a call to action and some great adventure to bring out the better man inside them.

For most men, that adventure will not be a heroic battle, empire-building, or conquering a great evil.

The most common mission and adventure that most men will partake in is the pursuit of a woman for marriage and raising a family with her. Yes, that is an adventure; for most men, it is THE adventure.

And you, ladies, can be the call to action that these men need. This is all you need to do:

1. Be beautiful inside and out. Men are very visual creatures, and women’s beauty has long motivated us.

2. Be feminine. A gracious and receptive woman who treats even socially awkward men with respect will build a reputation that pulls in higher-quality men.

3. Learn how to be charming. This starts with genuine care for others. Speak in a way that makes others feel hopeful, better about themselves, and inspired to do greater things.

4. Be positive and encouraging. Smile more. Let men you like know that you can be caught if they are willing to pursue you.

5. Get out of the house and meet men. Find out where they are going and show up. You can only inspire them if you interact with them. Be friendly and say hi.

If you do these things, a man will be inspired by you, and you will find a husband.