Marriage & Relationships November 12, 2021 2 min read

When I meet people, I touch them

When I meet people, I touch them. Kisses, hugs, pat on back, touch their face, their hands, their feet, etc.

And people often feel comfortable touching me

Children spontaneously hug me or want me to pick them up

Even animals come to me, “my dog hates everyone, but loves you”

Pregnant women I dont know complain about people touching their belly, then ask me if I want to touch them

Strangers run their fingers in by beard without asking

Why is it that I always get this super positive reaction to my touch?

Its my calm, assertive energy coming into it

People WANT to be touched

They are HUNGRY for touch

But they are also scared

Frightened of their primal need, knowing that having a need makes them vulnerable

Unable to communicate their need, they get used to suppressing it for fear of being mocked or taken advantage of

Emotions and touch are closely connected as we experience emotion through bodily sensation

Touching others bypasses all their mental and emotional defences and lets you right into their inner sanctum

This can be a deeply vulnerable place to put someone if they dont trust you

Many people touch others just to get something out of it

A sexual thrill, power, control, or even to get their own needs met

My touch is always about what is good for the other person

Long ago I learned that touch calms people down, builds trust and fills a need in others

Touching another person can tell you both so much about each other

I can “feel” a persons whole energy with a touch and by sensing their reaction to being touched

They sense my inner peace, my calmness and they take a bit of that with them

Tension is released, they become open

We all understand that an agitated child can be calmed by being picked up & held tightly

Most people who are suffering from anxiety will respond similarly

Problem is that no one hugs adults, especially if they dont have a spouse or children

So that energy has no where to go

Do you have a healing touch?

How do people react to your touch?

It tells you about your true inner self and how you are perceived at the deepest, most primal level

A comforting touch is the result of being fully developed mentally, emotionally and spiritually

You cant fake it

If you want to develop your ability to share intimate non-sexual touch with others you need to work on your inner self

This is best done by ACTIONS under the guidance of a mentor

DM me for help on this

“You touch peoples feet? Ewww!”

If it was good enough for Jesus its good enough for me.

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