Marriage & Relationships November 27, 2024 2 min read

We live in a broken society that needs to be radically fixed or torn apart

We live in a broken society that needs to be radically fixed or torn apart.

Nice Guys are part of the problem.

Beautiful, feminine women detest Nice Guys™️ because they are weak, dishonest, and help sustain the broken status quo with their simping. Of course, most women are unaware of why they find Nice Guys repulsive; it’s simply a gut feeling deep in their DNA.

And women tend to go with their gut over their heads or hearts.

This is why women test men, to eliminate the Nice Guys from the dating pool, to humiliate them, and drive them from the public and back into the basements from which they came. They can’t physically eliminate such weak men from existence, but making sure they don’t reproduce is the next closest thing.

Most men are not that cruel to weak men. We prefer to discipline them, even harshly, hoping that they will toughen up and join us on the wall, defending the home team. We want them to win. We need all the adults we can get. Men tend to have pity on them rather than hate. “There, but for the grace of God, go I.”.

What women want.

Women intuitively seek men who have the cool, callous disagreeability, strength, and courage to stand against this evil world, stick a middle finger in the face of the tyrants, and say, “To hell with the consequences.”.

It just so happens that many of those men are also jerks, or at least jerk adjacent.

The problem is that the Real Jerk™️ is no more an enemy of the broken system than the Nice Guy. In the end, the jerk is only out for himself. He hates all authority because it interferes with his personal pleasure and hedonism. He has no moral stance on anything. He has nothing to offer a woman or the world and will take everything he can. The jerk is a bad man and a bad boyfriend just as much as the Nice Guy.

Some women react to this by becoming a sort of female Nice Jerk, trying to fill their own needs with socially acceptable opinions about the poor, immigrants, and sexual deviants while displaying rude, rebellious, and disrespectful attitudes towards men and authority, legitimate or not. Naturally, this also leaves them feeling empty and alone. It’s not a solution.

If only they could find and keep the mature man, the grown-up. A man who is disagreeable enough to tell them that sweet word they long to hear, “NO,” yet kind enough to lead them and their children with love. A man who is the authority. Not a jerk, not a nice guy, but a real man.

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