Unless you have the method to get what you want you will not achieve the goal

Unless you have the method to get what you want you will not achieve the goal. How then can you get what you want out of life?

Imagine a beautiful garden, carefully cultivated, well balanced, well managed. How did that garden get like that? No doubt some planning and goals were involved however it was the sustained and coordinated actions of the gardener over many years that created the garden.

Creating positive changes in our life requires us to implement deliberate processes. We didn’t get to where we are or have what we have without following some path, knowingly or unknowingly. Was our path laid out for us or did we carefully and consciously choose our path?

As children our path is naturally laid out for us by our parents. At some point however we become responsible for our choices. Ideally our parents should help us to develop sufficient Agency to thrive in the environment that we live in. Sadly, this is often not the case.

Far to many people have under developed Agency. Even with Agency we still need to know how to direct ourselves so as to become the person that we wish to be. We need to understand the process of creating positive changes.