This is real. And while these videos are incredibly powerful, hypnotic, they ten

This is real. And while these videos are incredibly powerful, hypnotic, they tend to work best on women who are already, in some way, dissatisfied. With themselves, their choices, their life, and sometimes even with their husband.

So the change seems sudden, but it’s usually been primed by years of propaganda she may have ignored, until now.

It’s also fueled by personal dissatisfaction, which may have nothing to do with the marriage at all. Some people are just wired that way. And they have to choose: Use that restless energy to build something better, a deeper marriage, a richer life, a closer bond… Or use it to self-destruct.

What happens next depends more on her personality, how she was raised to handle discomfort, and the kind of women she surrounds herself with than on her husband’s reaction.

The best thing a husband can do in this situation is be organized, competent, masculine, and attractive enough to say: “If you want to leave, you can. I’d rather you stay, I love you, and I want this to work. But if you’re willing to sacrifice our children and this marriage for a vague feeling of dissatisfaction, instead of working through it, that’s your choice.” This works best when the man could easily find a much younger, more attractive woman. If you’re not that man, it’s still the best approach, but it’ll be less effective.