Marriage & Relationships February 23, 2022 3 min read

The vagus nerve is the longest nerve in your body It connects your brain to the...

The vagus nerve is the longest nerve in your body

It connects your brain to the gut, intestines, stomach, heart and lungs

It is a key part of your parasympathetic “rest and digest” nervous system (breathing, digestive function and heart rate)

Your parasympathetic nervous system functions automatically however it can be influenced consciously

Your mental state influences your “vagus tone” which in turn influences your mental health

vagus tone = the fitness of your vagus nerve

You can train it like a muscle

A toned vagus nerve means that you can enter into aroused states more quickly AND relax more quickly

This leads to more control over emotions, improved mental health & ability to tolerate stress

Pregnant mothers with high vagus tone give birth to babies with high vagus tone

  1. Cold exposure

Exposure to intense cold, especially on the back of the neck, stimulates your fight, flight or freeze response

For just a moment your body thinks its dying

Getting control of your response in these situations builds vagus tone

  1. Controlled breathing exercises

Deep, controlled, intense and purposeful breathing such as recommended by Win Hof train your entire central nervous system, including the vagus nerve

You dont HAVE to do them on a n iceberg

  1. Slow breathing

Slow breathing returns the vagus nerve to a “resting” state

Try to take about 10 seconds per cycle and hold a bit at the inhale and exhale

Do this for a few minutes and notice the difference

  1. Singing, chanting, humming

Music soothes the savage beast within us

Everyone knows that singing to a baby calms them, good news, it works on us as well

Sing some upbeat songs to relax

  1. Improve your gut health

Less: Food colouring, bitter vegetables, nightshades, grains, sugar, chocolate, booze, tobacco, drugs, etc.

More: Probiotics, pastured meat, eggs, Omega-3 Fatty Acids, saturated fats, salt

Some: Sweet fruit and berries

  1. Meditation

The right meditation done in the right amounts can give you conscious control over your central nervous system

Beware, not all meditation is created equal, some is harmful, talk to me if you are unsure as I have 35 years of experience meditating and teaching it

  1. Exercise and combat

Exercise and combat training stresses our vagus nerve

Acute stressors build strength

You cant relax unless you can also tighten yourself

Nothing like a swift punch in the face to remind you that all your other stressors are trivial

  1. Exposure to nature

We are meant to spend our days in the open wilds of the world

Cities are unnatural and induce chronic mental distress

More: Sunshine, fresh air, trees, sea, mountains, sunsets, sun rises, staring at horizons, standing and walking

Less: Sitting inside

  1. Massage

Massages can stimulate the vagus nerve, and increase vagal activity and vagal tone

Reflexology works similarly

Anyone can learn how to give a decent massage however its hard to beat a professional massage therapist with their training and experience

  1. Socialising and Laughing

We are social creatures & isolation is not normal or healthy

Get out and be with people at least once per week

Learn how to cultivate relationships that provide you with comfort, stimulation, trust & companionship

Socialising is an essential skill

If you need help dealing with anxiety, stress, poor relationships skills, etc. DM me

You dont have to live with panic attacks, depression and chronic anxiety

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