The Rule of 3 covers: 🔸3 hours 🔸3 days 🔸3 weeks 🔸3 months These are KEY time...
The Rule of 3 covers:
�3 hours �3 days �3 weeks �3 months
These are KEY time periods for dating towards marriage
If things are not moving you need to keep moving on
(Some flexibility can be made, use this as a general guide)
YOU should not be making your relationship move along, thats the mans job
�Women are the gatekeepers of sex �Men are the gatekeepers of relationships
The man decides speed & direction
The woman either follows or does not
⏰ Rule of 3 Hours
If a man isn’t interested in spending at least 3 hours a week with you, you’re not in a relationship
With you = face-to-face IRL
Dating online (distance relationship) is not real dating
Thats 3 QUALITY hours, not 3 hours on Netflix or video games
� Rule of 3 days
If he doesn’t ask you out in 3 days from his first text he is not that into you
Why?
Men who are confidant, positive & happy will act VERY quickly to get what they want, including a date
Dont waste your time on indecisive losers
� Rule of 3 days
If he breaks contact for 3+ days, he is not that into you
3 days, 72 hours thats a long time to not think about you
If he thinks about you, he will message you
Confidant men dont worry about appearing desperate
Only desperate men worry about that
� Rule of 3 weeks
If you have not met anyone he cares about within 3 weeks, he’s not that into you
If you have not had any deep discussions within 3 weeks, he’s not that into you
A man knows by 3 weeks in if you have wife potentional, he has already decided
� Rule of 3 months
If he is not ready for a commitment within 3 months he’s not that into you
He might need a bit more time to vet you before proposing, but he should be making some sort of commitment that is specific, exclusive and time sensitive
Dont be a forever girlfriend
Remember the Rule of 3s
Ladies: Dont waste your time on indecisive losers
Indecisive men have other, more hidden emotional and possibly mental problems that you should avoid
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