The Nice Guy is an empty vessel, formed by a traumatic or neglectful childhood. As children they were not filled with parental love or virtue. They are like imitation men, crafted out of scraps of humanity they scavenge from distorted popular cultural depictions of ideal men.
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Years spent ministering to the homeless and addicted revealed an uncomfortable pattern: most were not victims of circumstance but people who consistently chose self-destruction over responsibility.
Masculine men, modest feminine women, and many children — that is the pattern of a church that produces sustainable fruit. Judge a church not by its sermons but by its families.
They said I must wear a mask at the gym. I went home. Voluntary surrender of your sovereignty is the one thing a man should never accept — no matter how small the demand.
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