The church should be encouraging single men and women to improve themselves in...

The church should be encouraging single men and women to improve themselves in every measure that will make them better at being husbands and wives.

�Getting fitter, better hygiene, dressing well. �Learning about communicating with the opposite sex. �Understanding and developing the husband or wife skill sets. �Learning how to be loving, attentive parents.

There shouldn’t be any young single church members who want to marry but can’t because they don’t know how to attract someone.

They should be encouraging men to approach, court, and marry within the church as both a privilege and a duty while teaching young women how to respond positively to that attention.

Any group of humans—church, nation, tribe, family, etc.—that does not make the production of new generations central to its core mission will wither and die.