Should I Wait For A Women To Pursue Me?

Should I Wait For A Women To Pursue Me?

Women hate having to be the ones doing the pursuing. Because it signals that both they, and the man they are pursuing, are low value.

Passive, effeminate men need women to pursue them because they lack the courage to go after what they want.

Desperate women might settle for such a weak man, but they do not want him, and they do not respect him. Sometimes, though, that is the only kind of man they can find.

This leaves women with no real choice but to pursue. And when that happens, the burden of leadership in the relationship falls entirely on her.

Now, some cultures are very feminine. In those cultures, women lead. Women pursue. Women rule the household and their husbands follow.

But that is not the nature of Western culture. That inversion of healthy sexual dynamics is very recent, and only found in certain kinds of modern relationships.

Even now, in the West, the best men still pursue what they want. And the best women are still pursued.

It is only those left over who must improvise, trying to figure out something that works, after all the natural pairings have already happened.