She is telling you that: ♀️Her head & heart are at odds over you ("I dont...

She is telling you that:

♀️Her head & heart are at odds over you (“I dont think…” means she is unsure) ♀️She doesn’t want to be the pursuer ♀️The door to a relationship is still open if you pursue ♀️But incase you dont pursue, this lets everyone off easy so no hard feelings

Why does she want YOU to pursue when she is unsure?

Because she is NOT unsure about you. She is unsure about her own judgment about you

If you pursue then YOU take responsibility for initiating the relationship, your leadership calms her

Men are the relationship gatekeepers

How to follow up on this type of response:

Acknowledge what she said without addressing it

“OK” is enough

Then immediately setup the next meeting without using the words “date”

“I want to see you on Saturday for coffee”

Keep the pressure reasonable, dont push her away

I did this with my wife for 2 weeks and a half dozen dates before I said the word “date” again

“But I just wanted to be friends” she said

“Too late” I replied “we have been dating for 2 weeks and Im not going to be friends with someone I used to date”

Married for 20 years now