Relationships and sex are give and take

Relationships and sex are give and take.

We give what we have and get what we need.

This is not hard for the well fathered man or woman.

In a relationship:

Men provide VIGOR, their energy and “fire”.

Women provide VALUE, their ability to retain male investment and yield a return (children, a home, etc.)

Men are valued for their ability to display vigorous qualities.

Women are valued for their ability to display value retaining qualities.

This is why men and women have different expectations of each other and why they are judged differently in the sexual market place.

Men IMPRESS women. They “make their mark” on a women, which makes her theirs. The stronger the mark, the more loyal the women.

Women inspire men to do the kind of things that enable them to make a mark on them. They inspire men towards greatness.

Men and women display a mix of masculine VIGOR and feminine VALUE. We are a mix of the masculine and the feminine.

We tend to seek a partner that corresponds to our mix.

Very masculine men want very feminine women.

People closer to neutral will choose more neutral partners.

Fathers are the creators of order and civilisation both at the group level and within the mind of the individual.

The investment of fathers (or mature men at the group level) is key to the creation of a well structured unit.

Thus we speak of “the founding fathers”.

Mothers (the feminine) can not create order within society or the child. Thus, in cases where father investment is lacking we see the dissipation of VIGOR and the destruction of VALUE.

We are born chaotic and so can not order ourselves without the father.

Unfathered, disordered men deviate from the healthy and focused VIGOR of the well fathered man.

They become weak, parasitical and antisocial.

or

They become uncontrolled, narcissistic predators.

Often they vacillate between the two extremes, fruitlessly seeking balance.

Unfathered, disordered women deviate from the secure and protected VALUE of the well fathered women.

They become self loathing and self destructive.

or

They become narcissistic princesses.

Often they vacillate between the two extremes, fruitlessly seeking balance.

The men and women on the extreme negative side of the scale reflect the lack of fatherly attention as signalling that they are worthless. They become socially excluded. They get left behind, unwanted.

Most feminists and Omega type men fall into this category.

Men and women on the extreme positive side of the scale attempt to over compensate for the lack of fatherly attention by becoming caricatures of their respective gender.

Men become physical super predators.

Women become social super predators.

Receiving father investment inducts a child into a society.

Without such investment the individual is now locked out of all normal paths to success.

Society attempts to protect itself by rejecting the unfathered.

Having been rejected by society the unfathered decide to burn it down. Now the problem of the unfathered masses becomes a problem for all of us.

This is a serious danger to our survival.

This is why I have invested thousands of hours into creating support and help for the unfathered men and women.

We must offer them help or deal with the blow back.

Our future depends on finding a solution to this problem.