Mens attraction is hierarchical & stable
Mens attraction is hierarchical & stable.
We ask ourselves a series of questions in order:
- Am I physically attracted to her?
- Do I get along with her?
- Would she make a good wife?
- Would she make a good mother?
If a woman doesn’t pass a level we dont continue.
Men should NEVER marry a woman they dont find sexually attractive.
It’s not fair to either the man or the woman to marry when there is weak or no sexual chemistry.
He will eventually regret it and become resentful of his decision. Resentment is a guaranteed marriage killer.
It’s true that fat, ugly women get married everyday.
They marry weak men with low social status who suffer from under developed masculinity, immaturity, are victims of body positivity manipulation.
No woman WANTS to be marred to such a man and she will resent it one day.
Imagine the feelings of the woman who is married to a man that is not attracted to her, he tolerates having sex with her rather than desiring it.
What a sad situation and certainly not what nature or God has intended for married people.
Ladies, no matter how great your personality, or how well you cook or how solid of a Christian you are unless a man is physically attracted to you there will be no romance.
Men tell me all the time “she is great but Im not at all attracted to her”.
Attraction is key.
Unfortunately the lies and manipulations about the value of beauty, the necessity to remain physically fit and the realities of male attraction are just as likely to come from professed Christians as the woke.
Millions of obese people looking for excuses.
Heads in the sand.
Some men claim to not care about looks.
They are lying (virtue signalling).
Or they are under a manipulative spell.
Eventually masculine nature will assert itself.
Biology is more powerful than you can possibly imagine. We are hard wired to seak out beauty.
Ladies, the good news is that you can do a lot to improve your attractiveness and increase your chances of being asked out by quality men.
For tips on this topic talk to my colleague @limitlessleila
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