Men don't want to lose frame, but they do

Men don’t want to lose frame, but they do.

Women don’t want to undermine, but they do.

The roots of both negative behaviours are firmly planted in childhood. Both are either repeating the past or living in fear of repeating the past.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

To escape this common relationship ending cycle both need immediate help to adjust their behavior.

He needs male friends to help him shore up his weaknesses and improve his frame.

She needs help to learn how to express concern in a way that is not undermining.

If a relationship cycle of her undermining and him losing frame is allowed to continue it will reach a terminal point where nothing can be done to save the relationship.

It usually takes about a dozen coaching sessions to resolve the issues that cause the cycle to continue.