Jesus said “No one is good except God alone

Jesus said “No one is good except God alone.” (Mark 10:18)

Jesus would not allow a follower to call him “good”

Looking for a “good” Christian mate implies we are also judging ourselves as “good” Christians

This is contrary to the humble spirt that Jesus encouraged

“Good” is an intentionally vague metric

Those who have intimacy issues tend to push away possible matches by using vague metrics that no human can measure up to

It also implies an ability to measure a persons heart and innermost thoughts

You’re not a mind reader, you cant know

What metric IS useful for finding a Christian spouse?

Anyone can say they are a good, faithful and loyal Christian but only those who DEMONSTRATE Christian virtues over time can be trusted

Next Tweet will tell you how to find such a spouse

Make a list of the Christian virtues you want in a spouse

Look for ample >demonstration< of these virtues

This requires you to seek out and say YES to dates, social events and other opportunities to spend time observing potentional mates

You need to put in the time

Virtue is objective, measurable & real

“Goodness” is not

Seeking virtue means acting inline with reality

It clarifies your search and sharpens your focus

You CAN find a virtuous Christian spouse if you put in the time and effort

I will help you pick & identify virtue, DM me