It's exhausting to have to manage an adult woman (acting like a child) &...
It’s exhausting to have to manage an adult woman (acting like a child) & constantly hold her accountable for her actions.
Energy you spend on managing her is energy you’re not spending on your mission and responsibilities.
It’s a huge black hole of time and energy.
Her low Agency creates resentment in her husband as he feels compelled to manage her.
His attempts to manage his wife creates resentment in her as she feels demeaned being treated like a child.
Resentment is a marriage killer.
No one is happy in this situation.
Low Agency women can not manage (one or more) their weight, health, diet, exercise, domestic chores, childcare, emotions, thoughts, actions, relationships, sexuality and more.
This leaves them sick, fat, unhappy and dysfunctional.
No man wants his wife to suffer like that.
Successful, powerful, respected men need women that are mostly autonomous, self managing and responsible.
Yes, you provide leadership, direction and guidance but she should be able to function when you’re not looking.
She needs to have sufficiently developed agency.
The good news is that women (and men) can be trained (or they can seek training) to develop the Agency needed.
If you are a woman who wants to develop your agency or a man that wants to stop having to manage your wife DM me, I will help you.
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