Individualism is a luxury that requires a very stable, high trust, wealthy society, which we no longer have in the west.
Tribalism (extended family cooperation) is how we thrive during periods of chaos, lawlessness and scarcity.
The problem is that most western people have forgotten how to build a tribe. We had better relearn that skill quickly. Start building now, ask me how.
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Men historically only protected women who belonged to them. As Western incentive structures erode, society is reverting to a world where unprotected women face growing danger.
When she says her husband is great on paper, she is revealing a marriage with no polarity or desire — just a checklist. The real problem is not chores, it is that she turned her husband into a second wife.
The same hardships that forge masculine strength beat the softness out of women. If you want a feminine wife, protect her from the harshness that was never meant for her.
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