Marriage & Relationships July 3, 2022 2 min read

If a man doesn't find you sexually attractive he should not pursue you

If a man doesn’t find you sexually attractive he should not pursue you.

Why?

Because sexual attraction is a fundamental glue that helps to hold marriages together. It’s not the only glue, but its necessary especially in the early stages.�

Unattractive women pretend that beauty doesn’t matter “he will love me for my personality”.

Even if they find a man that ignores his primal instinct to find an attractive mate & they get married, he is going to feel resentment over it.

Resentment is a slow marriage killer.�

A womans appearance is how she signals to the world her personality.

Far more than men, a womans choice in fitness, hygiene and clothing is a solid indicator of her personality and beliefs.

If he doesn’t find her attractive he will probably not like her personality.�

“But God doesn’t judge by appearances”

Good, then go marry God. Become a nun, its an honourable role and no one will care what you look like.�

“If men judge based on appearance thats shallow and it’s going to mean they miss out of women with great personalities.”

Wanting a beautiful wife is NOT shallow, it’s a healthy and normal God given instinct. Do you think God made Eve a 3? No, she was a 10.�

“Beauty is subjective, you cant have a 1 to 10 scale”

This is what ugly women say.

Take 10 women who match each of the numbers and put them in a room. Have men line them up by rating.

#1 to 8 will be sorted the same between all men.

9 & 10 might flip

Men know how to judge.�

“Why dont you have a rating for men too?”

Women do rate men, but you all vet differently.

Looks matter to women, but much less.

Women judge based on excitement.

“Does he give me the tingles?”

Not just attraction but fun. They look for a man that can move them emotionally.�

Physical attraction is real. Beauty is real and objective. Those who know can use it to their advantage.

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“I dont like men judging my appearance.”

Wear a burka. Problem solved.

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