I don’t want to belong to any club that would have me as a member

I don’t want to belong to any club that would have me as a member. - Groucho Marx

Women become VERY vulnerable to their man when they marry and have children with him. Because of this they have several defense mechanisms to discourage low value suitors.

Any woman worth dating will offer some resistance to your first romantic approaches. You don’t want an easy woman that instantly melts over every guy that gives her some attention. Expect her to make you fight for her by demonstrating your value.

Be prepared for the hunt to be challenging. Women challenge men to weed out the low quality suitors, the submissive and weak. Pass the challenges and you may get the reward.

Be prepared for a no, even a hard no. Ignore what women say, pay attention to what they do. If her lips say no and her body posture and actions say yes she is inviting you to keep trying.

Keep trying, but if your first approach failed, don’t just repeat the same thing over and over again. Try another topic, another approach, another method.

Don’t be afraid of a little silence, you don’t need to fill every second with sounds. Give her time to size you up and respond. Too much verbal pressure too early can break the opportunity.

Be prepared for early shit tests and learn how to crush them. Don’t let her control you or your actions or your mood. She’s looking for strength and virtue, show it to her.

Be prepared for potential humiliation and learn how to artfully turn that into success. A man who backs down when he is humiliated has a fragile ego and will not be a strong provider and protector.

Women tend to focus on how you make them feel. The feelings that you want them to have about you are excitement and curiosity balanced with a sense of security and safety.

Sweep her off her feet by throwing her off balance (excitement) and then catching her (security).

Stay in frame, keep your cool and provoke some small emotional responses in her. The first person in a conversation to have an emotional response is the submissive one, that better be her or she will see you as low SMV.