His eyes are very sad

His eyes are very sad. Women want solar happiness, joy, and lots of energy.

And we have to read between the lines:

• Prioritizes spirituality, integrity, and relationship over worldly concerns and ambitions

That signals to women a lack of material success and connection to the real world. Women want ambitious men.

• Wants to build a sacred family bond that fosters wisdom and growth in both of us, as much as it provides love, companionship and pleasure

Mature women want wise men who are already done growing up. Especially since he is in his 30’s.

• Is my spiritual equal, and expects to be a fully equal partner in the marriage

Gross. Women want a man that is above them in every way, not an equal. Women want to marry up so that it’s easier to accept his headship.

The traditional woman he wants will be turned off by his nice guy attitude, lack of ambition and desire for equality.

This can all be corrected in 6 months or less. He is not a bad man, he just needs to finish maturing into a man with ambition and leadership potentional.

(This is all obvious for me because I have spoken with many hundreds of men and women about what they want in a relationship and why they reject or are rejected. But it’s never going to be obvious to people who lack the experience or pattern recognition that I have aquired.)