For men who are struggling to move forward in their romantic goals, unless you...

For men who are struggling to move forward in their romantic goals, unless you have some major SMV issues it’s probably your psychology that’s holding you back.

A lack of controlled assertiveness, mental fragility or a misunderstanding of masculine dominance and feminine submission may very well be leading you to take too soft of an approach to finding a wife.

Good women are repelled by soft men and attracted to dominant men. If she senses weakness in your personality it doesn’t matter how fit you are, how much you earn or what lifestyle you can provide. She won’t engage unless she can see herself completely surrendering to you.

For a woman to submit to your will she needs to trust you completely. At minimum she’s going to expect you to initiate the relationship. To be a leader to her. To protect her and make her feel safe. This is something that requires your masculine assertiveness.

In addition you will have to crush all her shit tests so clearly that she has no reason to keep on testing you. Notice that I didn’t say “pass” the tests. Actually this subject deserves a whole post on its own.