Finding a spouse was a community effort. Your family, friends and associates wanted to see you happily married and having lots of children. Today we are atomized, searching alone and surrounded by bad advice and bitter failures seeking to pull youth to their level of tragedy.
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Men historically only protected women who belonged to them. As Western incentive structures erode, society is reverting to a world where unprotected women face growing danger.
When she says her husband is great on paper, she is revealing a marriage with no polarity or desire — just a checklist. The real problem is not chores, it is that she turned her husband into a second wife.
The same hardships that forge masculine strength beat the softness out of women. If you want a feminine wife, protect her from the harshness that was never meant for her.
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