Every choice has a cost

Every choice has a cost. When it comes to women you pay your price and you be happy with it.

But you need to know the costs before making your choice.

Virtuous: behavior showing high moral standards

�Loyalty �Honesty �Conscientiousness �Industriousness �Graciousness �Wholesomeness �Intelligence �Kindness �Health �Godliness

Such women are easy to live with because you can trust their behaviour to be excellent.

Low Maintenance: requiring little work to keep the relationship in good condition.

Such women are not materialistic or overly demanding in regards to their expectations for the relationship or their man.

They do have standards, but they are minimal and easy to please.

Sexy: sexually attractive or exciting.

Such women stand out from their peers due to their appearance, how they dress, speak, move and their ability to seduce and please men.

It’s not just looks, it’s a whole package of sexually attractive traits that can be improved.

You can pick 2 out of 3 of the following traits

Later I will explain exceptions, so hold on and please wait to ask questions until the end.

Virtuous + Sexy

The woman who is Virtuous and Sexy is a very high value woman. She commands the most attention from men and knows this.

Such women have very high standards for themselves, their man and their relationship.

You better have yourself together if you want one.

Virtuous + Low Maintenance

The woman who is both Virtuous and Low Maintenance used to be very common when we had a healthy society.

They may not be the most sexy of women, but their natural wholesomeness and easy going nature made them excellent wives and mothers.

Low Maintenance + Sexy

These women used to occupy the fringes of society. Now they are much more common.

Think “hot mess”

Most of them think they have the value of the Virtuous and Sexy women, but they dont.

Men will not commit to them due to their lack of virtue.

Most women will not have any of the characteristics developed to 100%. Usually they are somewhere in the middle of the triangle.

Some women will only have one characteristic developed.

Example: they went all in on Sexy but they are a High Maintenance, unVirtuous mess.

Picking a woman is a compromise.

You cant have everything so you pick the compromise that is going to work for you and that you can afford.

You might want Virtuous and Sexy, but can you afford her? Are you man enough for such a woman?

If yes, dont settle for anything less.

“But I know a woman that is all three”

If she is in the middle of the triangle she will have a little of each characteristic. That describes most women.

But NO woman is 100% developed in all three areas because it would go against her best interests to be all three.

Men: How to use this information.

Rather than picking your 2 out of 3, instead pick the one area you are willing to compromise on.

Then focus on finding women who excel in the other two areas.

Women: How to use this information.

You have two possible strategies:

Maximise 2 out of 3 or Develop a bit in each area

Which you pick will depend on your natural assets and abilities. All three can be developed but not to the same extent in every person.

“Should focus only on self improvement, postpone dating and wait until everything is perfect before I look for a woman?”

No. Mixing dating WITH self improvement gets the best results in both. They mutually reinforce each other & increase motivation. Dont delay building a family.