Are you looking for a date outside of your league?

Are you looking for a date outside of your league?

Dating is much simpler than people make it out to be. Each person is unique, but in aggregate, it’s just math and statistics.

Women from a 4 to a 10 who aim to date men on their level get married quickly because there is a close match in value offered vs. value sought.

Women who want a man above their SMV stay single for a long time. They simply don’t have the ability to keep such men around and persuade them to commit. Yes, they can get attention, but not commitment or marriage.

In general, the rule is that if a woman is not finding a match despite looking for 2 to 3 years, she is trying to date men above her level.

This rule only applies if she is actively looking. Many men and women complain about the dating market, but they are not putting in the effort to meet new people on their level. You won’t find a husband by hiding in your living room.

As a woman, if you don’t like the choices you have in the dating market, you need to increase your attractiveness to men. Most women can go up 1 or 2 points just by adjusting their appearance, posture, expressions, and attitude. It’s easy and quick, if you know how.

Unfortunately, most women are too embarrassed to ask for help, outside opinions, or professional advice, so they stay stuck in a cycle of losing the men they like to women who did get help.

Even if you ask for help, your friends are just as lost as you are. Your parents and older married people are out of touch with the dating market. So, what can you do? You need expert help, and there are very few of us focused on helping people get married who know what we are doing.

The good news is that even a single coaching session with the right person can help you remove blockages and realign your efforts to be more effective. Send me a direct message, and I will provide you with the knowledge you need to prepare for marriage within the next 18 months.