1⃣Looks Physical fitness > grooming > style Judging appearance first is...

1⃣Looks

Physical fitness > grooming > style

Judging appearance first is NOT shallow, it is rational

Men learn a lot about a woman by her looks

The way a woman chooses to present herself to the world says everything about who she is and how she views herself

Men learn a lot about a woman by her looks

Healthy women take care of their appearance

A woman who loves herself takes care of herself & therefore can take care of a husband and children

It demonstrates genetic fitness

It is an easy & quick way to filter out undesirable women

2⃣Attitude

This takes time to uncover, you cant just ASK a woman about her attitude, you need to experience it

Is she feminine, cooperative, sweet and inspiring?

Or is she masculine, difficult, bitter and depressing?

Men have a gut instinct about these things

3⃣History

A woman will only reveal these things when she trusts you

Her relationship and sexual history matter to her future relationships, especially if she has spent years hurting herself

Family history and childhood greatly effect how we view relationships

Has she matured or just gotten older?

Did she learn lessons form her past that made her a better person, or does she keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again?

Has she received coaching, mentorship or therapy?

How did it change her?

All this takes time to find out

In case you have not caught the trend the order goes from easiest to notice and judge to hardest

Men only invest time to get to the next level if a woman passes the previous level

This saves us time and heartache

Work on the three areas mentioned if you want to attract men