Women benefit enormously when men have our own private spaces.
I love my wife, but it would be unreasonable to expect her to fulfill all my social needs. Sometimes I need to work with men doing masculine things. She can’t provide that.
When I do something productive with my mature, masculine friends, it energizes me and makes me appreciate even more what my wife does provide.
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Men historically only protected women who belonged to them. As Western incentive structures erode, society is reverting to a world where unprotected women face growing danger.
When she says her husband is great on paper, she is revealing a marriage with no polarity or desire — just a checklist. The real problem is not chores, it is that she turned her husband into a second wife.
The same hardships that forge masculine strength beat the softness out of women. If you want a feminine wife, protect her from the harshness that was never meant for her.
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