"Why do White men so instinctively defer to women in mating ?

“Why do White men so instinctively defer to women in mating ? Surely it can’t be all brainwashing.” - a reader

It’s part of the rise and fall, the natural ebb and flow of civilizations.

When times are hard, men do hard things daily. So telling a woman no isn’t difficult. Resisting pressure isn’t a crisis. They deal with pressure all the time.

But when life gets too easy, men get soft. Too comfortable. Too passive. Too weak. And suddenly, they can’t say no, to their government, their wife, their kids. At that point, they’re not men anymore.

The fix? Make life uncomfortable again. Either we choose it, or life will choose it for us.