We tend to meet mates via social connections. So, we marry friends of friends.
We tend to connect best with people who are 1 to 1.5 standard deviations from us in IQ.
A man with an IQ of 140 has very few men and even fewer women that are within 2 standard deviations of him.
His social network is smaller than a person with an IQ of 100.
His dating pool is tiny.
It is exponentially worse if he has a higher IQ.
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Men historically only protected women who belonged to them. As Western incentive structures erode, society is reverting to a world where unprotected women face growing danger.
When she says her husband is great on paper, she is revealing a marriage with no polarity or desire — just a checklist. The real problem is not chores, it is that she turned her husband into a second wife.
The same hardships that forge masculine strength beat the softness out of women. If you want a feminine wife, protect her from the harshness that was never meant for her.
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