There is a way to have this type of conversation with a girl you want to help...

There is a way to have this type of conversation with a girl you want to help, but you need to be able to speak to her as a father should his daughter

So, not in a creepy way

The parents who should be doing this, but I have had to do it a few times

I was a minister long ago

And its not a binary “dont look at/talk to men”

I taught them how to protect themselves and not abuse their growing power over men

This can be done with love and care

No one should feel uncomfortable

But most ministers are socially losers, they lack people skills