Masculinity & Manhood August 12, 2025 1 min read

Pat is right. Every woman who has ever been into me has said the same thing, sin

Pat is right.

Every woman who has ever been into me has said the same thing, since I was in my mid-teens. They always said it was about my energy, and the fact they saw I was going somewhere, doing something exciting, and they wanted to be part of it.

The first time I heard the concept of aura used this way, it was from someone telling me I had it.

Even many of my male friends have said the same, they wanted to be my friend because they saw I was going somewhere interesting and wanted to be part of it.

People love the dynamic, energetic man on a mission. But as Pat said, there are not many of us.

You do not have to match our energy exactly. But “boring” men must work hard to embody more of the heroic, energetic, integrated solar masculine into their personality. Turn up the energy.

Do exciting things. Take on challenges that are too big for you, and then hit them like a human bulldog, even if you fail, fail gloriously. Do it even if you are scared. Do it because you are scared.

Such actions will not fail to light a fire within you.

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