On the big 5 personality test Im super disagreeable.
But Im also high in conscientiousness.
So I carefully choose when, with who and how to be disagreeable based on my goals. This is the difference between an “asshole” and a mature mans approach to conflict.
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Years spent ministering to the homeless and addicted revealed an uncomfortable pattern: most were not victims of circumstance but people who consistently chose self-destruction over responsibility.
Masculine men, modest feminine women, and many children — that is the pattern of a church that produces sustainable fruit. Judge a church not by its sermons but by its families.
They said I must wear a mask at the gym. I went home. Voluntary surrender of your sovereignty is the one thing a man should never accept — no matter how small the demand.
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