No man wants to pay off a woman's debts But he might chose to do so if he wants...

No man wants to pay off a woman’s debts

But he might chose to do so if he wants other things about her

Competing wants

If she is attractive enough, cooperative enough, smart enough, charming enough, good enough he MIGHT chose to do something he would prefer not doing

A perfect man or women doesn’t exist

(and if they did, they wouldn’t want an imperfect partner)

So we must know what to tolerate, when and under what exchange based on what will work for us

Count the total value minus the negatives

See the whole person, not just the 🚩🚩🚩

The lesson for women is that if you have debt you are going to need to offer something that compensates to persuade a man to accept your debt

You got 100K in debt?

What can you offer that offsets 100K?

Being feminine, young and attractive dont count, thats just basics

If you cant answer the previous question you need to get some help to figure it out

Hire a coach, do an inventory of your value as a woman, potentional wife and mother

Add to your value until you have something that is going to persuade the type of man you want