Men and women speak different languages

Men and women speak different languages.

Imagine having a conversation with someone who speaks another language.

Yes, you can communicate some simple ideas using gestures, body language, and tone, but unless you can speak a third, mutually intelligible language, you will miss out on good communication and the chance to develop a deeper understanding of each other.

Men and women speak in different “grammars.” We have different communication styles and expectations. We receive and process information differently, and the differences are almost as stark as if we spoke different languages.

Learning how to communicate with the opposite sex puts them at ease, makes you far more attractive to them, and deepens your ability to relate to them.

Your marriage and your ability to parent opposite-sex children improve when you understand how they communicate.