🗣️📣Is your marriage meeting your needs?

�️📣Is your marriage meeting your needs?

Millions of men and women feel stuck in unfulfilling marriages.

They can’t see a solution.

What they have tried has failed.

Some couples end up endlessly arguing, and others turn cold, not even speaking.

It’s not that they don’t love their spouse; it’s that something is blocking them from the closeness and intimacy that they felt during courtship and early marriage.

This leaves them feeling lonely, hopeless, and scared.

Many believe that the only solution is divorce.

But there is another way.

The other way is available when you realize that:

Life is too short to be unhappily married.

That means not waiting another day to take action.

No more waiting for things to get better; only actions

What do I do to make my marriage satisfying again?

1. Learn how to communicate.

�Learn how to speak to your spouse in a way that is persuasive.

�Speaking to men and women is different; learn the differences.

�All manipulation, lies, and other trust-breaking communication

�Remember to listen carefully. People don’t always mean what they say, so ask follow-up questions if you are sure.

2. Set boundries.

�First with yourself, then with your spouse, and finally with others.

�Make sure everyone knows what is expected of them.

�Learn how to keep your boundaries.

3. Let your needs be known.

�Speak plainly to each other about what you need to be satisfied.

�Have patience with an uncommunicative spouse. It is very hard for some people to talk about their needs because it reveals their vulnerabilities.

�Meet as many of your own needs as is reasonable. Don’t put things on your spouse that are for you to solve.

�Have patience with your spouse as they learn how to meet your needs.

Finally, get help if any of this seems overwhelming or uncertain. Talk to me, I will help you.