If you want to avoid repeating the same mistakes, it starts with one thing...
If you want to avoid repeating the same mistakes, it starts with one thing: Figure out exactly what went wrong in your parents’ marriage.
Don’t sugarcoat it. Don’t make excuses for them.
Dissect it like a surgeon.
Where did the rot begin? What patterns kept showing up?
Who failed in what way? And how did it shape you?
Until you understand that, you’re walking blind into your own future.
Patterns repeat—unless you break them on purpose.
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