Marriage & Relationships October 16, 2023 2 min read

How many men do I have to choose from?

How many men do I have to choose from?

This depends on you and what you are looking for in a spouse.

There are plenty of men, if you are reasonable in what you are asking.

We are going to talk about statistics here, so if you feel the urge to NAXALT me, please bite your tongue.

Go to the @KeeperMatch tool and plug in what you are looking for.

Don’t worry if the results are 0.0X% or less. Multiply the percentage you get by the number of people in America.

Example for ladies: What percent of the US population is male, white, 21–30 years old, 5’8”–8’0” tall, making at least $60,000, and isn’t married or obese?

0.9% x 332 million = about 3 million men. That’s your dating pool.

Let’s say you also want to marry a Catholic. About 23% of Americans are Catholic. About 10% of Catholics are men in your age range. So multiply the 3 million we got earlier by 2.3% to get 69,000 men in your dating pool.

Out of that 69,000, some will be either ugly, immature, or effeminate, but I’m sure you can find one that you like and that likes you if you put yourself in the right situations to meet him.

For some context, if you limit yourself to “What percent of the US population is male, white, 25–30 years old, 6’2”–6’4” tall, making at least $100,000, and isn’t married or obese?” You get about 0.02%, or 66,000 men.

Small increases in income or height cut out massive numbers of men from your search. More so than wanting to marry in the same church.

“But he has to live near me.” Do the same calculations, but start with the population within your area instead of the population of the USA. Your area might have different demographics, but it doesn’t matter much; you will be close enough.

Many women who want to marry never go out in public or to social gatherings to meet men or when they do they put on a defensive posture that pushes potential husbands away. You can do better than them.

As long as you are willing to put in the work on yourself and be available for him, you can get the husband you want.

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