Every marriage has ups and downs. Life is not always happy all the time and getting married doesn’t change that.
Also, general marital success rates have almost nothing to do with any individual couples success. It’s fairly easy to calculate a specific couples chances of a successful marriage before they even meet based on their personality and beliefs.
We need to have realistic expectations about marriage or its unsustainable.
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Men historically only protected women who belonged to them. As Western incentive structures erode, society is reverting to a world where unprotected women face growing danger.
When she says her husband is great on paper, she is revealing a marriage with no polarity or desire — just a checklist. The real problem is not chores, it is that she turned her husband into a second wife.
The same hardships that forge masculine strength beat the softness out of women. If you want a feminine wife, protect her from the harshness that was never meant for her.
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