Change is a process not a goal The common advice is to focus on the goals that...

Change is a process not a goal The common advice is to focus on the goals that we wish to achieve in life. To be married, to have a great job, to have children, to buy a house, to buy a car, etc. however these achievements are results not methods of accomplishing things.

Unless you have the method to get what you want you will not achieve the goal. How then can you get what you want out of life?