Always ask her what she learned about herself and relationships from her past.
There are women who have had terrible childhoods and destructive early adulthoods who have healed and are now great women.
But she has to have enough conscientiousness and humility to do it.
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Men historically only protected women who belonged to them. As Western incentive structures erode, society is reverting to a world where unprotected women face growing danger.
When she says her husband is great on paper, she is revealing a marriage with no polarity or desire — just a checklist. The real problem is not chores, it is that she turned her husband into a second wife.
The same hardships that forge masculine strength beat the softness out of women. If you want a feminine wife, protect her from the harshness that was never meant for her.
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